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“Where Are You From?”

One funny thing that happened is, when I was a young lawyer, I was representing a big bank in New York, and I had a client, we dealt exclusively by telephone because we didn’t have Zoom back then.

And we were going to meet for the first time in Anchorage, Alaska, where I was working on a big financing for the Alaska Power Authority. And so we were going to meet in the lobby of the hotel and go to dinner and begin to talk about the documents.

So when I met my client for the very first time, he was shocked, he had no idea that I was Asian. And I said, “Well, what were you expecting?” He said, “Well, I knew you were from the Midwest, and you don’t have an accent.” And he said, “I just thought you were going to be a blonde, blue-eyed, corn-fed Midwesterner.” So he was just so shocked to see that I was Asian.

And speaking of the accent, I’m often asked by people, people I meet for the first time and complete strangers, cab drivers striking up a conversation, where are you from? And I typically answer that question, I say, I live in Los Angeles and I’m a native of Cleveland, Ohio. Because to me it’s important that I am from Cleveland, Ohio.

And then they will say, where are you really from? And I say, well, I was born in a hospital in Cleveland, Ohio. But they pursue it. And then I know that they really are asking about my ethnicity. So I say to them, my parents were born on the West Coast, theyr’e American citizens, and my four grandparents immigrated from Japan at the turn of the last century.


ethnicity group identity identity stereotypes

Date: Jul 3, 2025

Location: California, US

Interviewer: Kaori Nemoto

Contributed by: Watase Media Arts Center, Japanese American National Museum; Japanese American Bar Association

Interviewee Bio

Born in 1950 to Nisei parents, Wendy Shiba grew up in the all-White suburb of Westlake, Ohio. Despite the lack of representation, Shiba pursued higher education as a first generation and first woman in her family to do so. After graduating Temple Law School at the top of her class, Shiba went on to work in several prestigious positions, including as a law clerk to California Supreme Court Associate Justice Stanley Mosk, a law professor, a Big Law corporate attorney, and a C-suite executive for a Fortune 500 company.

Through her professional experiences, Shiba developed a passion for promoting allyship, DEI, and mentorship within the workplace and in the community. She served as NAPABA president from 2012 through 2013 and was a board member for the Japanese American National Museum since 2009.

Shiba today advocates for marginalized communities as chair for the ABA’s Center for Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. She hopes young people will consider how to embody allyship for communities that are especially at risk for discrimination and face constant threats to their civil liberties today. (September 2025)

 

*This interview was conducted as part of the Japanese American Bar Association (JABA) Legacy Project by the Nikkei Community Internship (NCI) Program intern co-hosted by JABA and the Japanese American National Museum each summer.

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