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Disrespectful Child (Japanese)

(Japanese) I was very aware that it wasn’t good to go with foreigners or Americans. “Not good” based on the consideration of the world’s perception. In my mind, there was nothing wrong to date anyone, no matter what country he was from. Perhaps that’s why I ended up marrying my husband. I feel bad for my parents. I’m sure my sisters feel like they made our parents unhappy. Everybody feels like that even though we shouldn’t. But in those days, if you think about what people might have thought, I think it was not a dutiful thing to do to my parents.


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Date: February 6, 2015

Location: California, US

Interviewer: Izumi Tanaka

Contributed by: Watase Media Arts Center, Japanese American National Museum

Interviewee Bio

Terumi Hisamatsu Calloway was born in 1937 in Yokohama as the 5th of 10 children and grew up in the suburb of Tokyo during the war. She met her husband, Edward E. Calloway, who was a civilian engineer working at American military base in Tokyo and married him. In 1960, after having 2 children, Terumi moved to the U.S. with her family and settled in the Bay Area and had two more children. Later they moved to the Lompoc area where all of her 4 children - 2 girls and 2 boys - grew up. In 1977, they moved to Inglewood where she resides now. Terumi was widowed in 2009, and she currently works as a caregiver. (April 2016)

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Shizuko Kadoguchi

Marrying Bob against family’s wishes

(b.1920) Japanese Canadian Nisei. Established the Ikenobo Ikebana Society of Toronto

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Masako Iino
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Masako Iino

Impressions from interviews with Issei women (Japanese)

Tsuda College President, researcher of Nikkei history

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Sakaye Shigekawa
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Sakaye Shigekawa

Never married

(1913-2013) Doctor specializing in obstetrics in Southern California

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Toshiko Elena Onchi
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Toshiko Elena Onchi

The breakdown of the family structure as a result of the deskasegi movement (Spanish)

Japanese Peruvian in Japan

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Sumiko Kozawa
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Sumiko Kozawa

Her early memories before the war

(1916-2016) Florist

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Harry Schneider
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Harry Schneider

Writing Letters

(1916 - 2013) Member of the U.S. Military Intelligence Service

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Harry Schneider
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Harry Schneider

Meeting Mr. Amano

(1916 - 2013) Member of the U.S. Military Intelligence Service

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Harry Schneider
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Harry Schneider

Marriage and Returning to US

(1916 - 2013) Member of the U.S. Military Intelligence Service

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Harry Schneider
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Harry Schneider

Reception of Hamako by family

(1916 - 2013) Member of the U.S. Military Intelligence Service

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Jean Hamako Schneider
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Jean Hamako Schneider

Conflicted about immigrating to America (Japanese)

(1925-2024) War bride

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Fred Y. Hoshiyama
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Fred Y. Hoshiyama

Becoming head of the family at age 8

(1914–2015) Nisei YMCA and Japanese American community leader

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Fred Y. Hoshiyama
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Fred Y. Hoshiyama

Advice from his mother

(1914–2015) Nisei YMCA and Japanese American community leader

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Fred Y. Hoshiyama
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Fred Y. Hoshiyama

Marriage and Family

(1914–2015) Nisei YMCA and Japanese American community leader

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Jimmy Ko Fukuhara
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Jimmy Ko Fukuhara

Meeting his wife, Eileen

(b. 1921) Nisei veteran who served in the occupation of Japan

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Kay Sekimachi
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Kay Sekimachi

Marriage to Bob Stocksdale

(b. 1926) Artist

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